Seattle's 12th Man...and Leadership

Seattle’s 12^th Man… and Leadership

Earlier in this year’s NFL season, my girlfriend, Jenna, brought home a Russell Wilson jersey.  Someone she works with gave it to her, and she gave it to me...I'm a huge fan of his, and I love his story.

Russell Wilson is #3.  However, on the inside of the jersey, it had a #12 stitched on the neck…I didn’t get it.  At that moment, I was on the receiving end of a mini-lecture from my Pacific Northwestern girlfriend on how the Seattle Seahawks’ beloved fan base is referred to as the 12^th Man. (11 players on a football team…and the fans are…the…’12^th Man.  Boom…got it.)

I’ve been fascinated with it ever since…

Seahawk fans are just that, fanatical about their team…and their city.  They’re loyal, zealous people, of all ages.  They wear their ‘Hawks’ gear all year round, with pride, representing their nation.  As they pass each other on the street in Seattle, in the aisle at their neighborhood Fred Meyer, or even outside of the Pacific Northwest…

I’ve seen them here in Las Vegas, at Disneyland, in Anaheim, and even when vacationing in Florida…they greet one another with, “Go Hawks”, as their blue’s and green’s shine brightly on their hats, shirts, headbands, shoes, and accompanying jewelry. 

On Fridays, in Seattle, during football season it’s a sea (no pun) of blue…for what they call, “Blue Friday”, as everyone wears their gear, leading up to the game on Sunday. 

Blue Thunder, the official drum line of the Seahawks, has played at every home game as well as over 100 events per year, throughout the greater Seattle area, since 2004.  As Gameday approaches, during the season, the city hoists the official `12^th Man’ flag atop Seattle’s iconic Space Needle.

Before every home game, a prominent individual to the Seattle community raises the ‘12^th Man’ flag, in a ceremony before the games are played at Century Link Field.  Fans not only turn out for every single game, selling out Century Link consistently, but they also cause an absolute ruckus.  They’re so loud that opposing teams get disoriented with multiple false start penalties, and on more than one occasion the crowd’s noise actually registered on a seismometer nearby. Impressive.

Earlier this season, the ‘12^th Man’ proudly became the loudest crowd in history, on a Monday night in early December when the noise level reached 137.6 decibels.

Here’s what amazes me --- when 67,000 of Seattle’s ‘12^th Man’ faithfully migrate into Century Link and thousands more across the Pacific Northwest trek out to their establishment of choice for the games --- it’s about 36 degrees (if they’re lucky) and probably raining.  

Needless to say, I’m impressed with Seattle, and I’m enamored with the ‘12^th Man’ phenomenon.  So I naturally dug a little deeper, tapping into some Googling skills, to learn just how in the world this all started.

Now, I get it.

You see the ‘12^th Man’ really took off when, in 2005, Coach Mike Holmgren recognized the Seahawks fans with a presentation of a special game ball, for their incredible efforts in a dramatic overtime victory over the New York Giants.  In the game, the Giants committed 11 false starts, which undoubtedly occurred because of the Seahawks fan’s crowd noise…

However, recognizing and involving the fans in Seattle, as it turns out, has been a part of their culture since Day 1.  The team was originally going to be called the Seattle Kings, but after a public naming contest the name, ‘Seattle Seahawks’ was selected.  The contest drew over 20,000 entries and over 1,700 names. 

In 1996, the Seahawks franchise was almost moved out of Seattle…to Southern California.  If not for Paul Allen, the team would have likely been taken away from the Emerald City.  Allen funded a $25 Million ad campaign, targeted to the people of Washington to vote for a $430 Million project  - a new stadium for the Hawks, exhibition center, and parking garage. IF and only IF the vote passed, Allen would agree to buy the team... (yep, he peeled off $25 million, just to lobby for the new stadium...before he even owned the team.)

The vote passed…Allen was then able to buy the team.  In addition, he paid $130 Million and the public (taxpayers) paid $300 Million to build the new stadium…and that’s how and why the ‘12^th Man’ has the unbelievable platform to do what they do 8 Sundays each season, to this day.

Supposedly just to get the deal done, the way it all went down was a mini-miracle…and would probably never happen today, as too many parties had to compromise. 

Through all the chaos, they say that Paul Allen had little interest in owning a football team, but he saw it as a civic responsibility…and he did it for his hometown, so the people of Seattle wouldn’t lose their beloved Seahawks.

Leaders Can Learn From the Seattle Seahawks Story

To recap...the people of Seattle are:

·      Involved in the process of choosing their team’s name from the start

·      Credited for the Seahawks’ extraordinary ability to win at home

·      Recognized and appreciated with the pre-game ‘12^th Man’ flag raising

·      United by that ‘12^th Man’ flag flying high above Seattle’s Space Needle

And in turn, the people of Seattle, the ‘12^th Man’, are loyal, energetic, enthusiastic, passionate, and they bring it…everyday...even the 36-degree days...and in the rain, and rain, and rain.

They love their team, and they love their city.

Calling all leaders!!! --- When we involve the people on our teams, credit them for successes, recognize and show them appreciation for what they do, and unite them together with common bonds and shared goals…we, too, can experience a culture of loyalty, energy, passion, and enthusiasm.   

And we’ll all love it.

It’s all about people…

And that’s why I love Seattle’s ‘12^th Man’ and leadership.

Go Hawks…

One for the road...about ATTITUDE

I'm a bit of a weather snob, having lived in either Florida or Nevada for most of my adult life.  So the weather in Seattle...yeah...not my fave.

But if you ever ask a person from Seattle, "doesn't it rain all the time in Seattle?"

They almost always respond with, "yeah, but it it's so beautiful...in the summer."

So nine months of the year, it's gray, cold, and raining...but they choose to focus on the three months of gorgeous views, sunny weather, and the beauty of what God blessed them with rather than complaining about the rain.  (They love their city so much that they actually get offended if you make fun of the rain...I've learned the hard way.)

There's just something about Seattle, and while it is certainly a beautiful city...I can't help but think the people make place.

It's all about people.  So focus on people the most!

A Thanksgiving Thread

A Thanksgiving Thread

When I was little, we had a routine – work hard in school, practice and play hard on the basketball court, spend plenty of time with friends and family…but come Sunday morning, it was off to church.

I remember on the ride to church, my Dad would always grab his checkbook and write out a check, to put in the offering plate.  Sometimes, he’d have me fill it in, and then he would sign it.  Every Sunday, he repeated the same exercise – write out the check, put it in the envelope, and drop it in the offering plate.

I feel very blessed to have grown up with two sets of loving grandparents.  I have very fond memories of both grandfathers, in church.  Sometimes I’d sit in the balcony, with my Dad’s Dad…and come offering time, he’d always throw his money in, and then he would be pass the offering plate to everyone in the pews in the balcony.  Some Sundays, I’d sit with my Mom’s Dad, and come offering time, he’d always slip me a five or ten dollar bill with a wink…just so I’d have something to put into the offering plate as it came our way.

As a child, I didn’t really know why we gave, I just trusted that it was the thing to do, and everything would work out just fine…

Fast forward to earlier this year – April, 2013 – at Central Christian Church, in Henderson, NV.  Senior Pastor, Jud Wilhite did a series on living The Blessed Life.  As with most of Jud’s messages, he takes scripture and unpacks the principles, illustrations, and applications for us.  We’re usually left inspired, moved, or simply refreshed about life.  This series was no different.  Jud taught from several scriptures and books of the Bible, which illustrate not only what it means to be blessed, but also just how we can strive to live and experience The Blessed Life.

Of course one of the underlying principles in the series was that it’s more blessed to give than to receive.  Jud reinforced how when we graciously and faithfully give of ourselves – our time, talent, & stuff – we begin to experience the many blessings in store for us.  On the contrary, when we hold on to our ‘stuff’ – our money, our time, and our treasures – we quickly find ourselves alone, seemingly on an island of discontent and frustration.

During this mini-season, I was worried and stressed about various things…nothing out of the ordinary…the usual – finances, career, long distance relationship (and no clue really how or what to do to navigate next steps…). 

Jud challenged us to take a 90-day challenge, and commit to giving an amount we felt appropriate, to God, on a regular basis…not because the church needed or wanted our money, but instead as an act of faith. 

I had always thrown money into the offering plate, but never with a commitment quite like the one I was about to make.  That week in April, I enrolled in Central’s online giving portal, and set up an automatic payment of 10% of my paycheck to go straight from my bank account to Central Christian Church. 

Though I didn’t really understand exactly how the dollars and cents would work out in the end, I felt moved to take that step, in faith…and trust that everything would work out just fine.

...sure I still think about money, my career, and finances, but I don't worry about it all like I used to... 

(And as a side note -- those 'next steps' with the long distance relationship...not only did Jenna move to Vegas, but she also found a job within 9 days of becoming a Nevada resident.  All that worrying, and all we had to do was look up, step out, and trust...everything is working out just fine...)

That 90-Day Challenge turned into a new routine.  Every other Friday, since that weekend in April, I receive the MyGiving confirmation email from Central Christian Church, that my contribution has been received.  I always smile on those Friday mornings, because the irony is that I should be sending a confirmation email to the Man upstairs, thanking Him and letting Him know how much I appreciate ALL of the many blessings in my life…

On this Thanksgiving Day, I’m thankful for so many things and so many people.  But I guess I’m most thankful for my parents, grandparents, Aunts, and Uncles whose gifts (lots of toys…) over the years were certainly blessings...but the best gift has been teaching me how to live a blessed life.

So here’s a confirmation email, to my parents and family members, letting you know that I love you and appreciate you, and every blessing in my life today, can be traced back to lessons learned growing up in Grayson, KY – working hard in school, practicing and playing hard on the basketball court, spending time with family, and especially…going to First Church of Christ on Sunday mornings…

#Threads

Happy ThanksGIVING…

Taylor

Connect Four

Connect Four

Coming off a recent vacation to Florida, where I spent time having fun with friends and family, my friend Rob MacRae, and I joked... 

We laughed about how nice it would be if we could just figure out a way to play ‘Connect Four’ and/or Shuffleboard for a living; perhaps a “Pro-Circuit” of sorts…that life would be way more fun.

The more I thought about the idea of “connect four”, some OneMoreSteps came to mind, which if/when put into action, we could add a little spice to our lives and maybe even add a little magic to those around us, at work or at home…making life more fun in the process:

Connect with People

“A gossip is one who talks to you about others, a bore is one who talks to you about himself, and a brilliant conversationalist is one who talks to you about yourself.”   -- Lisa Kirk

Ask four questions, to get to know someone new or catch up with an old friend…

Ask four questions of our boss…learn how we can add the most value possible to them, today…

Ask four questions of our significant other, to make sure we’re filling up their ‘love tank’…

Ask four questions of the people on our teams, to make sure they’re ok, still enjoying work, etc.

Connect the Dots

“You can't connect the dots looking forward you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something: your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. Because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart, even when it leads you off the well worn path.”  -- Steve Jobs

Connect four dots backwards, in our life/career…to better understand how we arrived here, today…

Connect four mini-milestones we’ll need to hit in order to get from here…to where we want to be…

Connect four friends or colleagues together – to make ‘fun connections’ or to build dynamic teams…

Connect four childhood lessons learned with the challenges of today, which can also be applied to tomorrow's opportunities…

While we’re connecting…what if we found a way to connect the four most important things, in order of importance – Faith, Family, Friends, and Career…

Now that I think about it...if we: 

* Have faith in a higher power

* Love our family unconditionally

* Stay genuinely interested in how we can make a positive difference in our friends’ lives

...While chasing our wildest dreams for our careers…

Maybe we can make a pretty good living playing Connect Four.

Have a great day, connecting…

Taylor

Connect Four pics, for the road

Connect Four X 2

 

Connect Four...with the Big Cheese

Former Roommates...ReConnecting

Connect Four Serenade...

 

Connect Four...then a couple more

Dub Dub reUnion, Connecting all Four

Connect Four times 2

...and if one can't connect over a game of Checkers

     ...with a total stranger

          ...in the Magic Kingdom

               ...where can ya connect ?

 

Love Vegas

Love Vegas

We love Vegas…then we hate Vegas.

The electricity, the excitement, the energy, the entertainment…all of which make up that Las Vegas experience which people come from miles away to see and feel. 

But then…

We hate Vegas.  Our team didn’t win, and we lose money on our bets.  The dealer had 21 after we split 8’s.  The Roulette wheel wasn’t cooperating.  The clubs and bars served too many drinks.  People replace sleep with a steady supplement of drinking, gambling, and sinning.  People then become angry, tired, and overcome with discontent.   

Before we know it, disgruntled people are everywhere, and they totally get us down. 

So whether we’re visiting Vegas, or for those of us that live in Vegas…we can’t help but think about how much better it will be when we get out of Vegas, where people are happier and we can actually enjoy ourselves again.

I lived in Vegas five years ago, and hated it.  I was far away from my closest friends, most loving family members, and everything that was familiar to me – the “South”, Florida, enchanted theme parks, oceans, lakes, and more nice people, per capita (so I thought).   

I spent the better part of a year, working in one of the nicest hotel/casino resorts ever built, Wynn / Encore Las Vegas.  Some of the brightest minds, most creative visionaries, and best operators in my field were in the offices next door, down the hallway, and across the conference room table from me…yet I couldn’t see that.  All I saw was the negative, and what Vegas lacked.

I moved back to Florida, and was quickly reminded that angry people, discontent, and sin are not indigenous to Las Vegas.  I was also reminded that I’m not in charge, and no matter how many books I read and regardless of how much schooling I have – I can’t do this on my own.  Not even close. 

The truth is…I spent a few seasons of my life thinking I could…”do it on my own”.  I thought, “I’ll go get the promotions at work”.  “I’ll go get the degree from business school.”  “I’ll be irresistible because of all my accomplishments.”

False.  False.  False.  And…false.

Three years ago, after spending a few months with no job, nor that “career path” I had dreamed of, ironically the place I did find a job was Las Vegas.  I packed up a U-Haul in Windermere, FL, and trekked back across the country, to Vegas.  The town I thought was NOT for me; the place in which I vowed never to live…ever again…because I hated it…was now home, once again.

When I arrived, I remember thinking to myself, “I can’t do this…again.  No way, can I live here and work here, and put together any kind of life or career.”  “I can’t possibly actually like this.”

Yet in these past three years:

•  I’ve been inspired by the people around me, more than in any other place I’ve lived or worked.
• I’ve embraced the opportunity to create and contribute, to ultimately add value to my company
• I’ve been moved by pastors and worship services at my church (and others), having read more of the Bible than in any other time in my life. 
• Though I fall short often, in my daily walk, I strive to be more of a Christian now than ever before.   

·      Not only have I found love, I’ve learned more about how to love, than in any other time in my life.

I found all of this…in Las Vegas.  If all this can be found in Las Vegas, it can surely be found in Anywhere, USA.

This post isn’t about me…nor is it about Vegas.  

It’s about LOVE.

My point is this:  

People often say, “I could never live in Vegas…because I’d be afraid it would darken my heart.” 

I just want to share with the OneMoreStepRevolution community that if God can show up, in a big way, on the Las Vegas strip, He can also show up on your doorstep, wherever you live.  He’s with us and He is for us, regardless of our current zip code.  And He loves us, not because of how awesome we can be, but instead, He loves us anyway and in spite of our habits or hang-ups.

You and I can’t possibly do this thing on our own.  We can’t.  But LOVE CAN. 

God’s love can open doors, change people, and fill hearts with even more LOVE.  When we replace the love we have for our own accomplishments and self-image with genuine, compassionate LOVE for others, once darkened hearts quickly become full once again…no matter where we live.

If I can find all of this in Las Vegas, I’m convinced that you and I can find it anywhere. 

“All we need is love…love is all we need.” – John Lennon

Two for the road…

My church, in Las Vegas, Central Christian Church, has recently embarked on a mission to take its ministry and reach to new heights.  Our tag line for our journey is simply, LOVE CAN.   

It’s our thankful response to what God’s love has done for us, and our faithful response for what we believe God’s LOVE CAN do to further our ministry.  On September 29^th, we held a church service which we called “Pack the Mack”, at the Thomas & Mack center. 

Over 15,000 people literally packed the Thomas & Mack Center, to worship…smack dab in the middle of Las Vegas.  Proof that if God can show up in this way, in “Sin City”…chances are, He can show up wherever you and I may find ourselves today…and tomorrow. 

Three Years Ago...we tipped the Cross-Country Tram Trip - 2010

Three years ago, I was in between jobs…out of work.  One of my best friends, Matthew Glenn Olsen, opened up his home and invited me to stay with him until I found the next adventure.  He didn’t have to do that…

On this date, in 2010 – Oct. 29^th  -- When I was offered a job back in Las Vegas, Matt not only helped me pack up the U-Haul (and clean out his own garage, which was FULL of my stuff), but he also volunteered his time making the cross-country drive with me.   

I’ll never forget those three days, traveling across the United States with Matt.  We laughed…I may have cried…I was a nervous wreck, as usual.  Most importantly, I’ll always remember why he jumped at the chance to help…he did it with LOVE, encouraging me the whole way.

And…we do love Vegas.

Have a great day.

#LoveCan

Taylor

Pursue

Pursue

Think about that dream you once dreamed; which days, weeks, months, or years later finally came true.

Consider that person or the people you became so fond of as soon as you met them, whom later became some of your closest friends or maybe even so much more.

Remember the time, effort, and energy you put into training for and/or preparing for that job or career you knew was the right one for you.

Think about the most meaningful relationships in your life today.

All four of these statements have two things in common:

·      It took a conscientious pursuit to achieve them

·      The pursuit, itself, kept you alive, energized, jazzed, and overcome with a sense of purpose, every single day during the pursuit.

OneMoreStep Thought – When life gets tedious, dull or simply no fun…consider your passions in life and pursue even more opportunities to make your passions part of your routine...everyday.

If it’s writing…write.  If it’s acting…act.  If it’s dancing…dance.  If it’s cooking…cook.  If it’s watching TV…DVR it up.

If you’re passionate about love…just love everyone, early and often.  If you’re passionate about sports…play them, watch them, blog about them, or research them. 

Too often we get caught up in “life” and we get lost in the shuffle.  We lose ourselves and forget what or whom it is that makes us happy, and tragically we stop pursuing those things and/or the opportunities to be around those people.  We then wonder why we’re in a funk…why we are so ‘down’…why we don’t have the energy we once had.

Sometimes, the OneMoreStep worth taking is to remember to pursue…and once we’re back in pursuit, that’s when we rediscover a sense of purpose.  That’s when we find our source of joy and inspiration, which not only makes us happier but it also reignites a feeling of happiness in those around us. 

That’s the whole point of the OneMoreStepRevolution by the way, to go OneMoreStep whenever possible, to make a positive difference in people's lives…let’s pursue it.

Two for the road…

One of my best friends, Matthew Glenn Olsen, sent me a text message last week, which was not only thoughtful on his part, but it was also thought provoking for me.   His message was one of encouragement, letting me know that he was happy for all of us – the fellas - because we’re all very happy with our girlfriends and wives. 

Matt reminded me, however, that all too often men stop pursuing the women they love once they become an official couple.  He encouraged me to never stop pursuing my girlfriend whom he knows I love very much, even though she and I have reached that “official couple” status.

So I did…and I will…because it’s in the midst of that pursuit when we find true happiness. 

This past weekend, I took my girlfriend on an old fashioned all-day date, which included a fun lunch, quality shopping time in some of her favorite stores, a Putt Putt Golf experience which she’s been wanting to do for weeks, dinner, and a movie.  Days like this used to happen all the time, earlier in our relationship, when we were both in major pursuit of a relationship with each other…

As we started out on Hole #1, and I saw the smile on her face…I remembered why this whole thing was worth pursuing in the first place.  When she’s happy, that makes me happy…and happiness is found in the pursuit itself!

This was great fun, until she won by 4 strokes...I'm now pursuing a rematch

I saw this quote on the wall in the entrance to Innoventions, an attraction at Disneyland, which also got my wheels turning on the OneMoreStep opportunity to pursue:  

The OneMoreStep 'thoughts' put into words --- It's less about crossing the finish line or reaching the top of the mountain...and it's ALL about pursuing the 'types' of work that "sustain our spirit".  In short, we should do what keeps us feeling ALIVE with a perpetual, renewed sense of PURPOSE every single day.  If we don't have that today, no problem...we can always PURSUE it!

Thanks, Matthew, for the reminder, to never stop pursuing...

Have a great day pursuing the work or the people that make you happy…and as you pursue, I hope you feel reenergized, jazzed, and truly overcome with a renewed sense of purpose.

"The journey is the destination..." -- Dan Eldon

Taylor

One more...

Speaking of my good buddy, Matt Olsen...and speaking of pursuing.  It's worth noting that Matt, since I met him in June of 1999, has always pursued LIFE.  He works hard, and he certainly makes sure fun is budgeted into his schedule...

This past weekend, Matt being Matt, participated in the BATTLE OF THE PADDLE, stand up paddle board competition in Dana Point, CA.  Just another illustration of how he not only pursues life, but quite literally, "The Salt Life", one of the brands he represents as the Director of Licensing for an apparel company.

What if everyone not only pursued, but truly lived their company's brand...

"It's all good...it's alright...just get'n high...on a Salt Life..." - Chuck Wicks: Salt Life, ROUGH

 

"I Think..."

“I Think…”

The two most frequently used words in corporate America and maybe even society as a whole are “I Think…" 

How often do we hear it? Partners, leaders, colleagues, and even customers say it all day long…day in and day out.  

The risk with beginning a sentence with, “I think” is that it assumes the person on the other end of the phone conversation, across the conference room table, across the aisle, in the audience, or in the classroom actually cares to know what we think. It assumes that we're already a respected and/or credible source of knowledge, on any given topic.  

The truth is…they may not even care.  Or even worse…they may not even respect us, let alone what we think.

OneMoreStep Thought for this week – especially for those of us who take pride in leading, whether we ‘have THE title" or not – is to simply change the “I think…” to “what do you think?”  

The word leadership can be defined many different ways, but I like this one (among others):

"Leadership is the activity of influencing people to cooperate towards some goal, which they come to find desirable and which motivates them over the long haul." – Ordway Tead, The Art of Influence

Most people become successful because once upon a time, they were really good at ‘something’..  Whether it’s selling, creating art of any kind, speaking, writing, dancing, adding and subtracting…some people are just really good at doing, whatever it is.

For true leaders, however, everything changes.  It’s less about what we do, and it becomes all about what we can inspire others to do.  It’s far less about what we think, and all about inspiring them to share what they think.  

Once we accept that ever-so-dynamic (and at times difficult) challenge of influencing…it’s less and less about us and ALL about them.  The mark of a great leader or coach or teacher or mentor (those who have accepted, with an open mind and heart, this leadership challenge) is no longer what we can do, but instead it’s all about how well can lead others to go do __________ something.

So it stands to reason, that if true leadership really is all about taking a group of people, transforming them into a TEAM, and then ultimately leading them toward a common goal with unified focus…leaders should ask “what do you think…” more than we boldly proclaim, what “I think…”

Great leaders facilitate collaborative conversations as opposed to dominating every conversation.   

Successful coaches take suggestions and input from their players and assistant coaches rather than taking the “my way or the highway” approach.   

The most inspiring teachers and professors take pride in being lifelong learners, and they take time to stop and ask students what they think as opposed to always pontificating with sentences that begin with, "I think."

What do you think?

Have a great day.

Taylor

One for the road…

Thanks to Arthur Keith, a former leader of mine and someone I’m proud to call a friend and colleague, who in the summer of 2007 taught me this very important “I think” vs. “What do you think” lesson.  Arthur was my Leadership Coach, in a Leadership Development Program when I was in graduate school. 

Arthur, I may have thanked you then, for this simple yet profound leadership nugget…but I’m sure I didn’t articulate it well enough.  So…thank you, again, for the very candid feedback and coaching six years ago.